The universe has an amazing amount to say about what we get and what we don't get.
The key, I've been told is acceptance.
Accept that you're gonna get the best version of what you're after and learn to want what you have, and you'll be happier.
The trouble with that line of reasoning is that we American's are taught from an early age to aspire. Therefore we're rarely satisfied with what we get.
So the lesson is to see the intelligence of providence. We can't know what's coming nor can we control it.
But isn' that the fun part, seeing how it turns out?
And so it goes: