some things are offensive some aren't

I read this morning that someone is planning a new website for gay friends. Apparently the idea is that gay people post their profiles and then ask their straight friends to support their quest for civil rights.

I find this offensive.

the notion that I'm a little waif out there needing outreach so some straight person can save me from the perils of the big bad world frankly pisses me off.

I don't need your help to obtain the rights I already have , thank you very much you condescending superior snob.

If you want to do something...well...don't. If you're of the opinion I need you to save me then I'd rather you just went about your business.

Ugh!

Conversely i don't find the following offensive at all: